Posts Tagged ‘respite’

Montana musings

Although we’d originally intended to hit Missoula Sunday night, after all the fun and frivolity (shame on us!)of yesterday it didn’t happen.  So we limped into Billings about midnight and took up the road again on Monday.
Little Miss oohed and aahed about the Rocky Mountains, as did we all.  Surrounded by one of the most [...]

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That headache time of year

No, I don’t mean allergy season, though that certainly would apply. I mean summer, and its attendant crisis-level situations about what to do when you have two working parents, special needs children, and services to arrange around family demands.
We’re all busy. Even without the challenges I know a lot of you parents have of getting [...]

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Tunnel vision

Our life with autism has been steadily heading toward a dark tunnel, and I’m afraid the train is about to arrive.
While Little Miss seemed to be coming along so well up till this year, fourth grade has made it clear that she has real issues I’ve written off to language delays or other “fixable” things. [...]

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Ah, brief respite!

Poet Anne Shaw says, “Fond as we are of our loved ones, there comes at times during their absence an unexplained peace.” This is undeniably true.
One of the few advantages I had as a single mother for many years is that my children’s father lived 1500 miles away. (No, not because he was far away! [...]

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Bad parents! No soup for you!

So the long-suffering Cabana Boy and myself conceived it would be a great idea to steal a date night for the two of us. What were we thinking?
We left the children with my daughter, who has five kids of her own, knowing they were in good hands, and headed to Erie–I know, not the fancy [...]

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This little light of mine

This week, I got an email from my mother-in-law, where my sister-in-law forwarded to HER this link. She thought it would be useful, apparently, because it was about Autism.
Now I appreciate the thought. But at this stage of the game, that article is pretty much useless to us. My son was diagnosed five years [...]

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Sweet child o’ mine

I’ve probably attended a dozen court hearings at which parents’ rights to their children were terminated. Some of these parents have been my clients. From an objective third-party point of view, the children may be better off. The children probably don’t think so; these are their parents, after all, for good or bad. Many abused [...]

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